So strap up and buckle down boys, this is probably going to be a long one. No tldr's included. I'm a long time reader and not much of a poster around here so I'll give you a little background. I've been around the RP sections of the internet for 5 years or more so I'm virtually an encyclopedia of redpill for lack of a better term. I don't really like the term red pill anymore but I can't think of a better way to articulate it.

Anyway, I got here through a few bad breakups and lack of continued success with women and I've grown a lot and acquired a lot of knowledge on the way. I originally found the RP side of the internet from bodybuilding.com's misc forum and it ended up steering me to the red pill subreddit, probably not long after it was created. I think it may have been less than a year old when I got there but don't quote me on it. All of what I learned there held very true to my life experience. Personal anecdotes, relationship experiences of my friends and family, it all just adds up. You start to see other men for the cucks they are, the blinders are lifted from your eyes and you see how gynocentric the world and society is. All things bent to the whims of women. Because guys don't know any better, and they can't do without (or believe they can't do without) sex and companionship from women.

When you listen to pop music here in the U.S., the gender dynamics are in bright lights and on fucking display if you have the knowledge to parse and understand what you're hearing. All female singers are singing about women's empowerment and independence. They talk about how confident they are, how nothing can break them, how they don't need a man to be satisfied. This is combined with ridiculous promiscuity and no shame about it. Of the top 40 songs I can think of one off hand that isn't overtly about sex or a woman. The woman singers are always concerned with their own feelings, and the male singers are always, ALWAYS fawning for the love of a woman they lost, or one that cucked them, or talking about how fine shawty's ass is looking in the club if it's one of those Jason Derulo-like singers. Can't fucking stand those. The female singers are pretty clearly imitating what they believe an alpha male to be. He's confident, not ashamed of his sexuality and won't spend any time crying over lost love. This is an example of female solipsism and there are a billion posts about that already. The point to remember is that they are trying to project the traits of an "alpha male" because they believe it will bring them the status and respect that it does to the alpha male. The problem is that it doesn't work like that as the dynamics for women are totally different.

And on the other side are the men. Crying, whining, bitching and moaning about a girl who doesn't like them or fucked another dude. It seems like there is an agenda to this. It's like the media is trying to convince men that they are born to be cucks and that it's something that should be celebrated. Ed Sheeran is the number one example off the radio of a complete and utter cuck but practically every other male artist on there that isn't Lil Jon is singing some crying cuck bullshit. Take a look at any of Ed Sheeran's lyrics. Another one is Shawn Mendes. If you're reading this post and you're into this post, take right now to either pull up the song on youtube or read along on a lyrics website. The song is called I Know What You Did Last Summer by Shawn Mendes feat. some girl no one gives a shit about. That first verse, the one with the "dirty secrets" and "another's hands have touched my skin", if that doesn't validate everything we talk about here, I don't know what the fuck does.

I've been thinking and spitballing about what it actually means to be a cuck. Here's the dictionary definition: noun 1. the husband of an unfaithful wife.

That number 1's really the one we're dealing with here. To be the husband means you're devoting resources to the woman. If you weren't devoting any resources to a girl and she was fucked by another man, so what, right? May hurt your feelings but that doesn't make you a cuck. To be a cuck you have to devote resources to an unfaithful woman. We know that women tend to be unfaithful here. We know the prevalence of that is much higher than is let on by pop culture. In fact, I think cucking is one of the main sexual strategies of women. They have the orbiter army, they have the provider, and they have the semen donor. The orbiter army, as most of you know, are the men that are willing to do her dirty work for the prospect of hearing her fart through a walkie-talkie. They're not going to be getting any and she's the only one who knows that. The provider is the man they project all their "love" on. The love that says "pay $2000 for me to have a rock on my finger" and "pay $15000 for me to have my dream wedding". Basically this dude is an ATM and he's consistently reinforced that what he's doing is the gentlemanly thing to do and that he is a "real man", not that any woman knows what a real man consists of. And then the bull is the ripped alpha bro who she's letting in all her holes on the side while Mr. ATM is getting a missionary dead fish pump once a month (if that). There are a billion anecdotes of this back to the beginning of time and we all know people who fit directly into these cookie cutter slots.

So what does it take to outplay this strategy employed by women? We already know to not be married. To not commit any resources means you won't be cucked and you won't be anyone's personal ATM. But I want to think about what would happen if literally all men were aware of this and decided to back out of the provider role. This part of the discussion is what I've been building up to. If all providers withdrew, for starters, women would have to work and compete in the cutthroat workforce environment with men. Moreso than they do now. Without their ability to manipulate men, women are about as functional as oversized children. In general they are not providing anything of significance to society. No revolutionary inventions or ideas, no cures for diseases, etc. But they also aren't holding up the bottom end of society either. Where are all those female trash collectors hiding? Construction workers? Concrete pourers? What about the combat roles in the military? Who's first in line to die? Not women. They would have to negotiate for a new deal or get crushed under the treads of the harsh world that the rest of us live in because they wouldn't be able to compete. But it's completely and utterly un-PC to say that. If I wrote this post as an article for New York Times I'd have a fuckin' lynch mob at my front door tomorrow. Women somehow have complete control of popular opinion despite being pretty non-functional as I've articulated in this very text block.

Women would need to negotiate a new deal so that men can continue to provide for them. But this time men would create the terms. I'm thinking the terms would be that the woman would provide proof of her fidelity and in return receive provision from a male. I know there are a lot of guys out there that would be willing to work hard day in and day out for access to a decent looking woman's body and companionship on a regular basis. Without the risk of Chad using her as a fleshlight while he's at work. Unfortunately most guys are doing this right now and she's free to fuck whoever she wants while he's away and pretend everything's fine. They don't really have a conscience and find ways in their mind to rationalize it in their mind the be the guy's fault. For the record I don't think women would ever agree to regular fidelity checks. I'm just spitballing ideas here. This is pretty much the only way that it would be fair for a guy in the modern world to place himself in the provider role. Women would argue that they're being treated as objects in this case but they pretty much are property that men pay to have sex with, only in this case it would be a lot more implicit in the terms of the relationship. As for me I will never marry or cohabitate so I wouldn't take this deal myself but I know it would be a lot more attractive a deal to men than constant worry that you're being cucked.

I apologize if you weren't looking to read a blog post when you opened this thread but that's pretty much what you got. Just wanted to let some thoughts out and see what you guys think since I'm not a regular poster. Your thoughts are welcome.

edit: looks like a huge fucking wall of text, don't know how to paragraph correctly