TL;DR: Wisdom/knowledge is the best path to become MGTOW, instead of denial, hatred or anti-feminism

Dubious way 1: Suppress or deny desire for women

  • Using willpower, self-deception or discipline isn't going to be a good long term solution. You'll likely just become a bitter man secretly dreaming of that magical unicorn. Or you'll be like those gay bashing preachers, who'd sell their mother for some dick. Trying to be someone else will lead to self-hatred, so always be honest with yourself.

Dubious way 2: Feminism has ruined women/relationships

  • Yes, feminism is stupid and harmful bullshit, but it isn't our core problem. Men were disposable, women were hypergamous and societies were gynocentric already before feminism and will be after it. By all means keep fighting against feminism if you want, but don't let it be your reason for being MGTOW. You would be missing a much more important point and you might even just fall for the next anti-feminist chick who wants to take your resources.

Dubious way 3: Hating women

  • Although hate is a natural reaction for unfairness and bullshit that we men have to face, it is not the best reason for going your own way. Would you hate a hurricane if it takes your house? Would you hate fire if it burns all your money? Or an idiot for saying stupid things? If not, then why hate women when they do this. Yes, most/all of them are selfish cunts, but hating them is only harming you. Make fun of them, expose their BS, but don't let them affect your life negatively. Remember that your happiness is the priority.

Correct way: Let the desire for women lessen and finally disappear automatically when you start understanding reality

  • The beauty of listening to MGTOW theory (my favorite is Barbarossa) and observing what is going on is that you don't have to consciously give up your desires for women, but it will just happen (usually gradually). You'll notice that walking past happy looking couples isn't going to make you feel envious anymore or meeting beautiful women isn't going to make you dream about your future together. And you definitely won't think that it's cool or manly to spend your time and money chasing sex in bars like a pathetic pussy addict. Of course you can still get laid or even date if you want to; you are a free man after all. But you'll be wise and know that those things aren't a requirement for your happiness.

I'm just starting my path of seriously becoming MGTOW, but already my life is so much easier and happier than it was before. Let's keep educating ourselves.