Girlfriend just broke up with me, I'm lost

coolman50544 · 2016-01-21T02:52:10+00:00

Some ideas that may be helpful in understanding women:

Hypergamy: In layman's terms, women tend to date up and across the socio-economic ladder. i.e. They won't be in a relationship with someone they perceive to be below them in terms of social standing or wealth. This is the norm and there are rare women that this doesn't apply to but they're probably already in a relationship.
Briffault's Law: The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place.

Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association.
Any agreement where the male provides a current benefit in return for a promise of future association is null and void as soon as the male has provided the benefit (see first bullet point)

I hope this doesn't lead you to hate womankind as these theories were meant to help you understand why women behave they way they do. I would advise you to watch some of Stardusk's or Barbarossaaaa's videos on youtube. And, ignore the negativity that some people have on this subreddit and / r / theredpill. Many of them are still angry at society for lying to them about the nature of women, but that doesn't mean you have to take on that anger. Learn about MGTOW and the red pill and then move on with your life. Nothing you learn here will give you enlightenment or take away the pain of losing your girlfriend, but it may help you understand why women behave the way they do and why our culture is not honest about the dynamics of male-female relationships.

AsexualMamba · 2016-01-21T03:33:35+00:00

Do yourself a favor don't jump into another relationship until you're happy just being single. I won't advocate MGTOW it's something I feel you have to come to yourself but I will advocate not looking for another relationship until you are happy with who you are.

FritzLn · 2016-01-21T02:54:14+00:00

not much to go on here, but i'm willing to bet you she's assuredly NOT lost. women have 1000 dicks thrown at them daily and she probably forgot about you already.

she wasn't yours it was just your turn and they only leave in order to trade you in for something better.

Natsume21 · 2016-01-21T05:05:27+00:00

Ignore the assholes, we've got some...extremists and bitter men here. Bitterness and depression tend to befall those who feel betrayed. Many of us are divorcees or men burned by relationships with women, myself included. We came to places like this, searching for answers. You heard people, especially women, tell you, when you ask why you keep failing in getting and keeping relationships, say you should just try harder, right?

Then you try harder...to be nicer, to be more romantic, to be more there for the kids...spend more money on her, and she still leaves you for someone else? You wonder this....

Why were you taught to be a good guy and then you watch girls flock around douches?

Because women like your mom taught you how to treat women, not not how to attract them. This in inherently built in to ensure a slang evo psych term that supports hypergamy and briffault's law.

Alpha fucks, beta bucks...the slang term for hypergamy.

Love is but a chemical reaction that nature designed in us to mate...look at other mammals. Remember that we are also mammals.

Romance was mostly written by men...sexual desire written by women.

You came to the right place, inbox me if you have any more questions. Warning, what you may read and find out will hurt...a lot.

Don't hate women. You don't hate a dog for barking, do you? And considering the whole "grass is greener" thing is an apex fallacy, by nature, women are never satisfied.

But they shame you into thinking otherwise so you can play the game.

Welcome r/coolman50544

PM_YOUR_TRIGGERS · 2016-01-21T01:59:45+00:00

You won't last here. You're being reactionary.

UneducatedLoser · 2016-01-21T05:05:45+00:00

My experience :

First few months (3 - 6) are going to be hard. If you get a chance to get another woman - it is going to be hard to resist.
Afterwards, things get easier. You get the hang of the bachelor life and realize that it isn't so bad after all. No drama, no conflict, lots of money saved, time for fun activities YOU enjoy, etc.

repoman · 2016-01-21T05:56:11+00:00

Find yourself within yourself.

Isaiah4verse1 · 2016-01-21T15:37:17+00:00

Is there an expansion in the mail or do we just take your eight words for it?

Title	Girlfriend just broke up with me, I'm lost
Author	coolman50544
Upvotes	0
Comments	26
Date	January 21, 2016 1:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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