If you come out as a virgin and show some sort of desperation for help, you get made fun of, ridiculed, teased, get called out for not engaging in "possessive love", etc

But a normie can come out about their sex life and give out even the most disgusting details about their sex life and expect no repercussion

Can somebody just tell me how male virginity got policed? And look at how people restrict what counts as a man losing and not losing his virginity

"Oh if it is with a stripper, hooker or prostitute, that doesn't count", "Oh if it is a one night stand that doesn't count", "Oh if you were wearing condom"

Sheesh at one point does that stop? I really want to know