I decided to stop putting women on a pedestal. I’ve made so many mistakes believing that I need to be a nice guy and sugarcoat everything. It’s gotten me nowhere. I’m going to fucking change. I know I’ve made so many mistakes:

My ex of 5 months reached out to me after 3 weeks of ignoring me once I offered to be friends ( dumb ass mistake # 1) and said she’d like that and we should have lunch soon. We broke up cause she said she needed space to process the breakup of her former ex, the guy she left for me (yea right, probably went back to him). I said Saturday and she said ok ( dumbass mistake # 2). She flaked and this was just so she could see if I really cared aka validation/ego. She never really wanted to and I had no desire to get back with her. Her actions spoke louder than her words.

I then had enough . I told her your lack of transparency turns me off and I don’t want shit to do with you. That she should work on her codependency issues since she jumps from one relationship to another and that I would never shack up with a damaged woman like you ever again and deleted every trace of her. I knew it hurt her feelings cause she was going to therapy for it.I will never put another woman on a pedestal ever again. I will always tell it like it is.