Intro:

A man is most dangerous when knows his value. He is both dangerous and attractive to girls, simultaneously. The female imperative wants the best quality men to breed with, and the rest to live in a state of self-deprecation, of non-existent self-confidence. For he, who is stands for nothing, falls for anything.

Body:

What a woman wants is to find the highest quality alpha male that her looks can attract. The trick, therefore, in the success of her endeavour, is to convince a male who is several points higher than her on the Sexual Market Place, that he is actually the same level or lower, than her, in order to secure his commitment.

Women have contrived many a conventions and popular opinions historically and in the modern day to convince men, globally, that they’re idiots, that they’re lazy and that they would be lucky have a female commit to them. Think of all the commercials where the dude is sitting on the couch watching the game, whereas the poor little lady is doing housework and is upset that he’s lazy, or where they’re in the car and he got them both lost because he refused to listen to the GPS (or even turn it on).

You might be thinking, “RedIntrovert, I think that all may be lost! Mainstream Media, Hollywood and the record companies, as well as the Left have gained control over all aspects “information distribution” and they’re pushing their own feminist agenda, what can we do?”. Great question, the one thing that the above leftist-movement cannot control, is you. Right now, you’re sitting here, reading my post. You’re already on the path to witness the demise of the establishment.

Women want to find the best man that their looks can attract, but if that very man was aware of his value, he would subconsciously (and at times consciously) take the frame back to himself, instead of hers. For he who knows his own value can then live a life of abundance, for he will not seek to gain value or validation from outside sources (read: people) as he recognizes that he is already enough.

This is dangerous to women in two ways;

Firstly, she knows that if the guy knows his own value, he is less likely to choose her, as there are always prettier girls. Being able to recognise the value that he has, will in turn allow him to calibrate the level of women that he would have to put no work (read: game) into, some work and a lot of work. He would also be able to spot those instances where HE is being picked up by girls who recognise his value as higher than hers, and act accordingly.

Secondly, he is less likely to commit. For when a man knows his value, he will also know his stance in the SMP, which would propel him to approach women of a calibre higher than what he’s been used to. I will leave the topic of “leagues” for another post, but in short: There’s no reason a man who is a 7 on the SMP chart cannot approach a girl who is an 8 or 9.

Saying is easier than doing and recognising your value is a good example of that. To recognise your value requires a deep level of self-awareness and honesty with yourself. You need to take a good hard look at yourself, you will need to find both your strengths, and your opportunities. You may dress well, but are you lifting weights? You may have a good haircut but are you looking after your teeth and skin?

Doing this “check” is a good way to find out where you’re standing. Call it a ‘system check’ or a ‘virus scan’. Take some time and really look at yourself and where you can improve.

But don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that “to get pussy you gotta be superstar model in looks”, what I’m saying is that you can always improve something about yourself, that will add positive value to your life and frankly, most things that I do don’t take a lot of effort at all, it just takes commitment.

When it comes to the manosphere, we already are the better choice. Most men on this planet do not even know that there exists a “sexual market place” and they certainly don’t know how to recognise a shit-test and how to pass it.

If you read TRP, you are already more aware of your value and the value of women better than most men do. So recognise this, recognise the advantage you have over so many blue-pilled men.

Recognise that when she challenges you, it’s a shit-test, and pass it. That’s what “recognising your value” is all about. It is about a man knowing that he is enough, that the women actually want him but won’t talk about it. It’s also about the man knowing that he can do it, that he can rely on himself, and that he does not need a woman to “fill the void”.

THAT is what’s so scary yet attractive to women, that in front of them stands a man that derives happiness from himself and does not seek it from her. That she is not important to him and that maybe, she will need to put in some work to keep his attention.

Conclusion:

Realize that you are all you need, that women are not your life, but that they’re an addition to it. Realize that you DO have the courage and strength to lead and that you are enough. Women will find it scary yet very attractive. But always strive to be better, not for others, but for yourself. Be the best version of yourself that you can be. You will thank yourself later.

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