I'm suffering from MGTOW.

countinginsolitude · 2019-09-29T07:21:11+00:00

You're allowed to have sex with women but MGTOW frowns upon relationships and marriage because you can and will get screwed over.

NietzscheExplosion · 2019-09-29T07:33:14+00:00

Just go back to the plantation.

Metroplex78 · 2019-09-29T07:35:43+00:00

Pump and dump.

2019-09-29T07:46:27+00:00

You're making the classic mistake of trying to give up smoking while always being among smokers. Your mind regularly contemplates internally upon sex, it sees men and women engaging in sexual companship, and your mind begins speculating about it.

The cycle is this - Contemplation internally within the mind or externally with your senses, on sense objects < Attachment to such sense objects < Desire or Lust < Anger or Frustration < Delusion < Loss of memory < Corruption of Intelligence < Fall down

Your original mistake was having sex itself, which is of-course extremely common but extremely life binding, it's like taking a drug out of curiosity and peer pressure, but has consequences which last till death. If you want to genuinely remain a celibate then live with bona-fide celibates. But what you're doing right now is a futile endeavour. It's no use giving something up while constantly thinking about it in the mind. Whether you like it or not, I predict you're soon going to endeavour for sex. Only an actual residence among the pure can save you, which probably you'll not be doing.

Loganphoenix122 · 2019-09-29T07:52:00+00:00

Perhaps realizing that you are whole by yourself should be enough. Also your brain and its comfort-zone tend to trick you, thinking you miss something to make you whole or complete. Maybe even re-realizing what your gift, passion, mission are, should be helpfully or if you don’t, meditating on it.

And what has already has being sad, you can have sex, but relationships you should be carefully enter, if you even want that.

Also if you can look at yourself and learn to deal with snakes and rats you wont be surprised by its nature. Like the story of the toad and the scorpion, Where the scorpion ask a toad to bring it to the other side of a 100 meter wide lake connected on both end by a strong flowing river. The toad first refused, saying its the nature of a scorpion to sting it. And the scorpion explaining it would not sting it, since it would kill itself as well. So the toad agrees seeing the logic. 10 meters the scorpion says: see its all good and the toad says sure, still doubt-full 25 meters the scorpions says: don’t worry will be fine, I promise I really wont sting, the toad now more confident that they will be okay 40 meters in the toad doesn’t even think about getting stung by the scorpion and let its guard down 50 meters in at the deepest part of he lake, the scorpion stings the toad, the toad fully caught of guard, shocked and surprised asks the scorpion, why did you sting me, you promised you would and now you kill both of us, the scorpion says: how could you be surprised, its in my nature.

You can do it, but don’t be surprised if you get stung. No one can tell you what to do and you can still look for red flags, in the end most women know how to lie and manipulate you, don’t be surprised when they do, its a base female survival instinct, despite growing up in a good home and having everything in place.

2019-09-29T07:58:33+00:00

Smack Smack

You are not suffering! You are withdrawing now deal with it and take the last few steps to achieving Zen or fuck off outta here.

jonathino001 · 2019-09-29T08:07:09+00:00

It's a delicate balance, and each of us has to decide how far we're willing to go to get our rocks off.

Personally I don't interact with women at all if i can help it. But then again I'm lucky enough to be incredibly introverted, and have a very low sex drive. Some of us pump and dump every now and then. Some of us hire a prostitute. Some even enter casual relationships, although usually they don't let it get too far, and go to great lengths to protect themselves.

You have to decide for yourself how much risk you're willing to take, your libido isn't the same as mine. But regardless of what you choose to do, do it SMART. Do whatever you need to protect your independence. Don't get anyone pregnant, don't get any STD's, hell, you might even want to use fake names. DON'T GET #METOO'ED

But before you decide to leave monk mode, at least try to find some other way to satisfy your urges first. You're 6 years sober, if you can find it in yourself to stay that way, it'll make things easier on you in the long run.

Title	I'm suffering from MGTOW.
Author	violetmonstermunch
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	September 29, 2019 7:13 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/darz9e/im_suffering_from_mgtow/
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