(Need advice) A girl is annoying the fuck out of me because i didn't return her attention back and i'm going to lose myself if this shit continues,i need advice on dealing with her

CoolDEpot · 2020-11-27T20:07:05+00:00

Ignore all the way !!!
Use this opportunity to practice and develop the skill of ignoring women because trust me this will not be the last time you are going to have to do it.

Kolo11234 · 2020-11-27T20:30:44+00:00

If I could I would just avoid being near her or any situation where she's in proximity. I don't know how much of school you have left but I would stay away from everyone on a break or better just hide somewhere like a library or canteen. Make sure you're in a public place so she can't do anything silly and if she does you have a witness. Report her for harassing/bullying or at least inform someone of her behaviour and say you need some space away from her because you feel uncomfortable.

2020-11-27T20:21:22+00:00

Don't crack... that is what she wants, she wants to get a reaction out of you to feel like she matters to you. If you want to hurt her, just keep ignoring it. It EATS her up! As you can clearly see by her behavior. Just ignore the fuck out of her.

Sal_Yodada6502 · 2020-11-27T20:25:31+00:00

The fact you feel the need to deal with her at all is disconcerting.

The best starting point appears to be inside your own head.

JoeSmith1907 · 2020-11-27T20:32:55+00:00

Are you still in school? Ignoring her might be the best plan, but you also might want to protect yourself if you go to whoever takes sexual harassment complaints and tell them in a neutral tone how she's harassing you and that you don't want anything to happen to her but you just want to put the matter on record. This might protect you if she makes a complaint, but there might be a downside to doing that. I just wanted to throw that out as a possibility.

DannyNog556 · 2020-11-27T20:38:41+00:00

Stop letting her live rent free in your head.

Occasion-Mental · 2020-11-27T20:45:19+00:00

The are only little victories because you let them in your mind be that. She is shit testing you deliberately to get a negative reaction so she can the play the victim card. If you engage, then she will have won. Don't give her the satisfaction.

It's only an insult if it comes from somebody that you respect, some random git spewing hatred and bile just shows the world who they really are.

Do not lower yourself the her standard, work to be above it. Project politeness, it cuts through the crap and shows more about who you are.

After_Fight3564 · 2020-11-27T20:10:37+00:00

Simple. Just block and move on. Why would you want to deal with such BS?

huurb · 2020-11-27T20:22:55+00:00

Sounds like someone's in love

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