I know it's a show of weakness, but here's some details to what's bugging me out: I was dating a great woman. It took a long time for me to promote her to ltr, she had very few red flags nad ticked almost every box i find attractive in women. Long story short, we parted ways which fucked me up pretty bad, but that's not the case.

Im all good now, i got over a break up and hopped back on my path of bettering myself in every aspect. But I'm being chased with ideas of becoming the best version of myself just to show her that it was her mistake to leave.

I dont like that im being motivated by such silly thing, especially considering i have no anger towards this girl. How do i let go?