Do you ever give people second chances? Not just women, but everyone in general?

I feel like it’s kind of beta to go back on your word, just because I’m not angry and hurt anymore doesn’t mean I don’t remember how they made me feel

When someone hurts me or crosses me, I really internalize that shit and reflect on it. Eventually I get over them by lifting and focusing on myself and then I start to reminiscence on the good memories with this person, but I also keep in mind why they aren’t in my life anymore.

Is it beneficial to reach out to old people who have hurt you in the past? Or fuck that shit because people don’t change and I deserve better?