“I still miss my ex and it’s my husbands fault”

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Honest_Solution · 2020-04-20T14:22:53+00:00

I loved my ex boyfriend more than I love my husband There were solid reasons that we broke up. We didn’t stop loving each other though. We’ve been split for 8 years, 6 of them spent with my husband. I still laugh at our inside jokes, daydream off into our vacations, dream about him all of the time, try NOT to think about him when I masturbate. Fuck, one of ‘our songs’ was on a playlist one of bridesmaids had put together for the salon and I actually cried for him ON MY WEDDING DAY!

It makes me feel like a really shitty person.

This will get buried. But I needed to say it.

Edit for a few things: - saying I laugh bc of who is better looking... it’s a little thing to laugh at when the big thing makes you want to cry. A distraction technique. A joke! -my husband is a kind man, but not a perfect one. He is not without flaws. He’s not in love with his ex, I know, but we have our own set of issues. If not I wouldn’t still be hung up on my ex, right? -for those saying he deserves a better wife. He has a good one. I am kind, supportive of him & his goals, loyal, faithful... etc. I just gave feelings that I cannot control.

Edit 2: -I’m signing off after reading all of this, even the nasty bits, and I’ve come to realize that more is the wrong word. It’s more accurate to say I loved him differently.

But y’alllllllll, some of you have some serious anger issues & need to be in therapy as much as I do (and I am!)

Title	“I still miss my ex and it’s my husbands fault”
Author	Honest_Solution
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	April 20, 2020 2:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/g4to2y/i_still_miss_my_ex_and_its_my_husbands_fault/
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