I am not gonna talk about asexuals.

Let's start by looking at context, i.e. at the female hierarchy of needs. Depending on ambition, she obviously looks for some or all of the following in a mate

  1. Resource gathering ability/cash (to raise healthy child with)
  2. Social skill (alpha leading 5 men obv beats 1 gigantic man)
  3. Increased physical strength (ward off preds and other threats)
  4. Genetic traits (resistance to disease, etc)
  5. Intelligence (to overcome challenges with brain and resourcefulness lmao)
  6. Others

So obviously, not every man has every single one of these traits. But it's cool because a woman is not locked onto 1 single man for her entire lifetime. So the result is she will play it by taking on 1 dude for his money, 1 dude for his disease resistance genes, 1 dude for his. physical genes... yaknow. List goes on.

Maybe not all at the same time.. it depends on how self aware she is right.

Male side. Just wants sex and/or the ability to pass genes on. Criterion is the same.. hot face, hot body.

Some men will want only sex because biological urge satiation and ignore genetic fulfilment. That's ok. Maybe some woman will use another guy's funds illicitly for their kid. That's part of their conscious/unconscious hopes.

Some people want both. TRP/MMSL. Again, their decision.

Some people just want the latter and not the former. Traditional sexless marriage betabuxxers i guess. That's their decision.

  1. QUESTION FOR THE HONEST MAN

Say you're a guy and you wanna play an honest game in the current sexual meta that falls under modern legal regulations.

You wanna pass your genes down, but you also don't want to have your funds used by the woman for someone else's baby. Say you're completely willing and able to support your kids ON YOUR OWN.

What's the most REASONABLE way of achieving this? Like, ofc she can go if she wants to. But how do you

A. Protect existing funds from being stripped away for someone else's kids

B. Ensure that she's also okay with the deal at the same time

Think about it in the frame of all current tools we have available to us today. Legal, social, immigrative, etc.

  1. QUESTION FOR THE HONEST WOMAN

Say your partner is an average dude. Ok looking neither short nor tall, cracks decent jokes, can provide for his own kid and afford someone to take care of it. Maybe has decent wit or something else that makes up for other genetic/inherent liabilities.

Of course you want that fantastic prospect of insane and varied genetics. But it's not fair to him to make him pay for your own that's not his. Especially not when he's in a committed relationship with you.

So what would be a 'satisfactory' honest deal in this case? Obviously you cannot straddle 1 mans genetics with another man's money. But divorce is not out of the question.

The real question is, how much alimony is satisfactory to you for him to keep the child? After you've given birth and all.

Would it change the price if he remained a good exercise influence in a way that you would get back to prime hotness level simply by following his lead (even if he's still completely average or even slightly subaverage in the physical department, just made up for by other traits but has those good practices).