M/18

Background story: Got out of an LTR about 5 months ago and I’m returning to the game. First LTR and first girl i fucked.

Thanks to the red pill I realized a lot of mistakes i made in the relationship and learned from them, when that said I have a lot to learn.

I have a few questions on shit test and quarantine.

  1. talked to this girl on tinder, HB7 and I don’t know if she was shit testing me. Take a peek:

Me: We can plan this out on text.

Her: you don’t got my number?

Me: I know, I’m waiting for you to ask me for mine.

Her: hahah I think you should ask :)

Me: We are going to see about that, time is ticking ;)

Her: guess were just going to wait then.

4 weeks later, I was busy but then I found this convo again and thought fuck it

Me: your really stubborn, girls name hahaha

Her: hahah says you?

Me: how bout you give me your number so we can get to know each other better, and then maybe we can meet up after quarantine ;)

Her: hahah about time you pulled your finger out of your ass.

Her: number

Me: Were going to see which finger is in who in a while ;)

Look I’m overthinking this, but was that “pull finger out of ass” a shit test? And was my last message to much of a creep vibe?

  1. In general is it best to laugh off shit test or tease back?

  2. Is there some keys I should be looking for to quickly found out if it’s a shit test? Or should I go off the general vibe and instincts?