I'm in a point in my life where I feel comfortable where I can start spinning plates. I have a great job, my own place, good friends, variety of hobbies, and a proportional dad bod. I believe my SMV is ok, could be better in my opinion.

Since highschool I've spun this one plate, it's a paper plate. Handy in a pinch and you dont have to wash it when your done. The thing is I never really tries to spin that plate, it just happened. Now its starting to wobble, I'm ok with that because I'm looking at spinning more and better plates.

I'm ok with rejection and I'm confident enough in myself to do shit. I just never really thought about spinning multiple before, I used to dating exclusively.

I'm going to assume you plate women like you were dating them, but unexclusively by setting boundaries like I want to keep seeing you but I'm not ready for a relationship? Also how do I let them suspect I'm seeing other women without outright telling them?