I don't know you and I don't care to kiss your ass or do a bow. I am a freeman whose ancestors fought to free themselves from your family. I've read about your fucked up childhood since you were born. I am going to tell you the truth because you need to hear it and I suspect that no one is going, to be honest with you. You are still a fellow man and brother so let me speak the truth as I see it. If you don't like it....don't read anymore.

You fucked up. I can see it in your eyes and the way you walk around. I can understand why you married her--the strange is a lot of fun. It is also clear that she is isolating you from family, friends and all the things that you like (hunting, guns, and lord knows what else.) I get the pressure that you are under to please her--my now ex-wife completely ran me and engaged in such nasty behavior that I eventually became depressed and a shadow of my former self. I married a self-centered narcissistic emotionally abusive woman. It almost killed me.

You have a child now and probably did the deed because that is what she wanted. That kid is not going to make her or your relationship work. In fact, Archie is just going to be a tool used to control you further.

Prepare yourself for the inevitable divorce. The sooner you realize that the relationship is doomed the better. You are perfectly capable of being a great father on your own terms, just divorce--pay the price of $10,000,000 and be done with it. You are not the first and certainly are not the last man to make this kind of mistake. Your son Archie is much better having a father who is happy than one who is a depressed shell of his former self. Remember you could have lived a life of total ease--instead, you joined the army and served in Afghanistan. I bet you look on those days as the happiest of your life. You were strong, capable, and powerful as a single man--you can be that again and be an excellent example to your son.

If you don't leave--you are screwed.

Good luck.