I realised that a lot of the improvements to my life came from my own learning in dealing with new life issues or problems. These are the lessons I think I learned in the past few years. I would be happy if you share yours.

  1. Don't live or do things with FEAR. If I will fail, I will fail but not because I am afraid to do something. We do new crazy things all the time, take hard decisions. Take them with assertiveness.
  2. Create a list of Values and live by them. This is something I see in a lot of companies. Be a principled man, and live by them. Admit when you are wrong and when you did a mistake.Honesty is a strong currency.
  3. Honesty is an expensive gift, don't expect it from cheap people. This is something I picked up from W. Buffet.
  4. Invest time/money/effort in things that no one can take away from you: experience, knowledge, skills.
  5. What takes you from A to B will not take you from B to C. For those who have a career or a skill job, you know that learning will change and to do new things you have to LEARN new things.
  6. Don't believe the bullshit people are telling you or they are telling themselves.
  7. There are always two sets of rules everywhere: one set written in the books for losers to follow, the other set of rules is about how things "actually get done".
  8. Power is not always visible. When you work somewhere, always bear in mind that the people with the decision making capability and power are not always that have the important job title.
  9. Stay away from women. They are an accessory to your life not a goal. Be polite, but don't believe anything they say. They don't believe it themselves.
  10. Family comes first: Don't be afraid to want children, or to appreciate your parents and extended family. You take the risk that you want to take, there will be consequences but you know what you are getting into. MGTOW rules are not set in stone, everyone has his own path.

Bonus: I am not a big fun of alcohol, sugar or drugs, and I don't think I am missing much. If your friends are not contributing positively to your life, don't be afraid to shed them off.

If you have an advice to give, comment below.

Edits: minor grammar corrections.