I am into all general areas of BDSM... Giving or receiving pain, dominating or being dominated, bondage, and giving or receiving discipline. Receiving discipline is what I think people in TRP might take issue with. I want your opinions.

I would want a relationship where I am generally in charge/the dominant partner (in BDSM parlance) of our living space, any trips we take, most of her attire, and sex on the weekend. I would like my food cooked for me. She would get sex as she likes on weekdays (preferably teasing me or servicing her hnng) and hold me to high standards in my fitness habits and fashion with corporal punishment. Also maybe punish me for not being able to lie still and silent while being teased. Discipline would be bilateral: she would have certain standards to meet.

I know I should hold myself to a high standard anyway, but what can I say? The carrot of rewards and the stick help me get those things done without fretting.

I had a 1 year relationship in college where my gf told me what to wear and enjoyed spontaneously teasing me all the time. She was otherwise submissive, and I think could tell I enjoyed it. So I think it could work.

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What proportion of women would be down for something like this?

Do you believe that is that too much power to give over to a women?

Have you experienced a similar dynamic, and how did it go?