HB9 from 5 yr + past (never made a move), msged me. I set a meet and made it happen, closed the deal (seemed like a very good session). She was mostly instant with the replies before and replied instantly and positively to my morning after "Had fun text, best of luck with "situation she mentioned"".

I let it sit for like 8 days, no initiation from her. I was busy and never really text anyway except for logistics, maybe a little opener when re-initiating, then set the plans. Plus, she left quickly with no bonding after the deed, she had long travel time and late night/early morning as an excuse (logically valid but emotionally misplaced). Thought nothing of it other than, "this girl does not want a relationship, plate time".

I messaged her, How you doing? did the "thing she mentioned" work out? (8 days after meet).

Was expecting a "yeah!" and straight to plans, but she is not responding (24 hours now) and I think I might have waited too long. If so, then too bad, but what are your opinions.

*Let it be noted that I am very good at the first night bang now, huge improvement from past experiences for me, but this situation has happened to me the last 6 times with 6 different women. All the others ghosted after a 2nd bang never on the 1st, sometimes 3 or 4 bangs, then poof! Gone!
Most girls come back eagerly for a second session then say "I'm busy and never ever get back to me"

Was 8 days too long or not? (Varies depending on personal experience/style, I have not found mine yet)

Should I ever try again or is it dead?

What am I missing here? Bad sex? Too distant? Just the way it is for me?

The seduction phase I have down but the drought is real with only ONS and no plating. I have never had a girl stick around for more than 4 weeks. I would like to get better at this part.