She got used for sex and is okay with it. She's just happy it isn't violent

rellik13xx · 2020-05-24T05:36:50+00:00

Jesus Christ. This woman has some serious issues.

MattyK414 · 2020-05-24T06:26:10+00:00

She's heavily damaged. Doctors will tell you that these types either seek out abusers, or will accuse regular guys of being abusive.

loneliness-inc · 2020-05-24T05:38:41+00:00

After years of riding the cc, there's little hope she'll ever find a good man. Even after 16 years of consistently dating bad boys who'd beat her, she still doesn't seem to know what attracted her to these men in the first place............ 🤔

OP in the comments:

But I don't feel used. I know I was but my therapist had told me that I needed to find someone that made me feel safe and see if I would be able to have sex with them. With as damaged as I was even she was unsure if I was going to be able to trust someone enough to be that vulnerable around them and be able to relax and have sex.

I have had lots of offers over the years but couldn't find anyone that I felt safe around.

I spent a lot of time reflecting about what happened and I'm ok. Like I'm no longer scared of having a healthy relationship with someone including sex. This was my last hurdle to get over.

2020-05-24T08:12:40+00:00

But remember guys ‘it’s your personality that’s the problem’.

BoxofMistakes · 2020-05-24T08:58:13+00:00

Women talk about shit like this like it's normal

SouthDakotaCornbread · 2020-05-24T11:10:03+00:00

She sounds like a fun little false rape accusation.

nnnnawalt · 2020-05-24T06:18:17+00:00

As much as I don't wish rape on anyone giving your rapist more power over you by denying your sexuality is almost as bad as sleeping with anything that moves after it happened. I wish feminists that bang on about agency would actually encourage women to pick themselves up by their bootstraps and I dunno... LEAVE a bad situation. Unlike men they have tons of options to get away. What's the point in agency and slutwalks if you don't know your worth and give in to tingles.

peguy2000 · 2020-05-24T07:10:48+00:00

This amount of cope

Rottinghere · 2020-05-24T12:42:56+00:00

A thoroughly broken little girl.

Ishabaka · 2020-05-24T13:46:40+00:00

Lady: you picked 'em.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-05-24T16:18:04+00:00

Met this girl one night. We went to her pad, get undressed. She kneeled on her bed and asked me to slap her. I mean. to seriously slap the shit out of her, screaming, begging and all. I went, grabbed my clothes without saying a word and almost ran outta there.

BboyLotus · 2020-05-24T09:54:58+00:00

Restaurant and pie? She must be really proud of herself.

empatheticapathetic · 2020-05-24T14:22:48+00:00

Where are all these dangerous men and why is she having sex with them for 16 years?

I need these answers before I can find any empathy, let alone sympathy.

2020-05-24T12:54:54+00:00

I wouldn’t call that healing

skillpollution · 2020-05-24T14:36:38+00:00

Sounds like a bunny boiler to me best avoided in all circumstances

animalmother2017 · 2020-05-24T16:19:43+00:00

Imagine being so proud of yourself for having non-violent sex with someone that you treat yourself to a nice dinner out.

fagt69 · 2020-05-24T16:28:05+00:00

I think I'll have pie to celebrate that part

Haha she's had pie every day since turning 30 let's not lie here

SomeSqueakyCleanButt · 2020-05-24T19:11:29+00:00

I'll take Things Whores Say for $100 Alex.

TheApricotCavalier · 2020-05-24T21:03:06+00:00

fyi, shes not ok with it. Shes desperately trying to convince herself & ignore how miserable she is

guynpdx · 2020-05-24T16:14:49+00:00

Yikes. Cringe.

2020-05-24T12:22:58+00:00

she sounds familiar, maybe it's me she's talking about.. just the age ain't right though, I don't do post wallers.

loneliness-inc · 2020-05-24T15:08:32+00:00

Not sure if most men feel the same(and maybe I'm lost in translation here), but I would be 100% ok with being used just for sex if it was stated from the begining.

thetesigma · 2020-05-24T22:40:46+00:00

Please stop using imgur as it now requires sign-in. Does someone have a link to a non-imgur site?

xdmx89 · 2020-05-31T12:33:36+00:00

Just reading the title made me sad

loneliness-inc · 2020-05-25T00:05:46+00:00

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twigsinpeanutsbutter · 2020-05-24T12:53:50+00:00

This was a terrible post

Title	She got used for sex and is okay with it. She's just happy it isn't violent
Author	loneliness-inc
Upvotes	231
Comments	84
Date	May 24, 2020 5:34 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/gpk83u/she_got_used_for_sex_and_is_okay_with_it_shes/
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