We’ve been in a relationship for three years now, living together for two. Usually things are good, she cooks and cleans, sex when I want it. However one argument continuously pops up over and over again.
She feels that I don’t love her and thinks of her as an afterthought.
I try to stay busy and productive with my time whether it be my art or my project car. I’m innately a creative person and that is what I enjoy doing, creating and fixing things. I feel that we spend a lot of time together, we go on dates at least once a month. I’ll be honest I’m not the guy that buys her flowers or gifts all the time, but I’ll help out with the cleaning or make breakfast/dinner, help her with her studies, or really anything she needs, but I guess this is not enough.
To me, it seems like if I’m not with her 24/7 she feels emotionally neglected or something. Its honestly quite annoying.
This is my first LTR and the first girl I’ve lived with, it truly is a balancing act to keep things in line and stable. But I guess today was the straw that broke the camels back she completely blew up on me about all of this. If she leaves me, she leaves me, oh well I guess. Lol
Do you guys have any advice on how to mend things back and make her feel more special going forward?