I might write things which won’t be such a discovery for this subreddit, but before doing that I’ve searched and haven’t found that anyone has talked about it. So let me share what i mean.

We all heard “all men are pigs”, “guys always think about sex”, “guys only want sex”

But really? Look at women. When they gather together they discuss people, sex, relationships. They discuss who fucked them and how. How did it feel like. They gossip. They don’t talk about games, cars, etc as we guys do. Yes, guys of course also talk about sex and also in details. But, from my experience, women do that far more. When they fuck they aren’t being that romantic. They lack depth of emotions.

In fact: they aren’t really interested in anything else other than that. I’ve experienced this myself. In different phases, companies of my life i was alpha as well as i was beta. And you know what? They don’t give a fuck about who you are as a person. If you are popular, if you are fun to fuck with, if you have good mood, etc they like you. You are being talked about. You are cool. They want to try you. But when you are weak- fuck off. They completely don’t give a fuck about you. About your views, hobbies. They don’t want even to talk with you. You are no one for them. If you fuck bad-fuck off. Literally. Absolutely no interest in you whatsoever. That’s what i observed from plenty of stories. “Everything is sex” as Feud said. And you know what? This thing can be 100% applied to how women interact. Literally. It is literally only about sex for them. Again, I observed it personally.

There is a thing-its called ‘narcissism’. Or toxicity. Toxic behavior. Entitlement. We have it a lot in our culture nowadays. When people project their negative qualities on another person, for example. When people give backhanded compliments. Know what i mean? You’ve probably met such people in your life. Usually, they portray themselves as good ones and others as “crazy, weird” ones.

Isn’t that what’s going on globally between men and women? Look at us. I am not gonna write here that guys are true romantics. Or that women only care about what you can do for her/ how you make them feel. People here probably know that. But what does culture say? “Men always think about sex”. Shit no. We think about relationships, romantic moments. We want seriousness. We do presents, we fix their problems, we show off, we get into humor to make them laugh. Some of us go MGTOW when we realize that in this day and age its difficult to have normal relationship with a woman.

From my childhood i was conditioned like that. I genuinely thought that women are angelic, love fairies. May be some of them are, but that would be rather exception of the rule. Then I’ve found out that they just like to get fucked so good that it is hard to walk on the next day. We, guys, gotta have more pride and better self esteem, self respect. Its not we who basically destroyed majority of the families. If 70-80% of women file for divorce and most of them (2/3) said that the reason for that was dissatisfaction with the partner, then guess what the fuck this means? It means that when problems appear in marriage, guys tend to try to save family and women just destroy it. They don’t give a fuck. Yet, it is women are perceived as the ones “doing the right thing”. And that guys are basically retarded Homer Simpsons and Peter Griffins.

No fucking wonder previously in some cultures virgin women were simple given to a husband. And she gotta respect him and love him and fear him. I know that its somewhat misogynistic and sexist, but well fucking look at what women have done given the freedom of choice. They only care about their kids and their mothers. Husband is some kind of undefined flying funny object for them which can be used. I personally know plenty of divorced women. Plenty teachers in school were divorced. Plenty mothers of my friends are. Idk what drives them. But they do it. And they will obviously continue.

Yes, there are guys assholes alcoholics who also fuck things up and who have good wives, good mothers of their children who actually do the right things. But on average, i think its reversed. Plus, no wonder guys are drinking in such a difficult time for us to live.

I just wanted to say that us, guys, should stop buying this bullshit. We are more serious ones. We care for families. We are romantics. We don’t have solipsism. We can solve conflicts. We aren’t kids. They are.

Or else at some point its gonna be too late