I’m 6’4 245lbs

When I have sex sometimes it can be unenjoyable if the girl is too tight, as it hurts the girl. It’s pretty thick down there.

I’m not asking whether women prefer Girth to length what I’m talking about is it sometimes hurts the girl and on top of that can be pretty painful for me if they stop getting wet through the pain. If she’s lose enough for me I consider a fucking red flag.

‘Use lube and wait for them to adapt’ are my initial thoughts.

Even pre being a stocky guy it sometimes hurt and ruins immersion for me but il be honest I’ve never fucked a chick more than 2/3 times due to having a false view of female nature which I’ve now overcome.

Will they actually adapt to this? I get a baby will come out of there but will they actually stretch? I’m literally asking for a friend.