I am 40 and recently divorced after 10 years of indigo blue-pilled marriage. My ex and I separated 15 months ago when I aborted my efforts to integrate the red pill into our marriage. My seven and three y/o boys live with me half of the time.

I am fortunate that the wisdom of men such as yourselves enabled me to internalize red pill principles, and I am able to generate female options. Several women have already given me The Talk, and each time I declined to commit to exclusivity. While I enjoy experiencing a variety of women, I would have had some decisions to make with at least one of them if I was even reasonably confident that she would have maintained her desire for me had we formalized an LTR.

At bottom, at this time I lack the spiritual bandwidth for LTR/married game, which I now recognize is way harder than spinning plates. I like the idea of being in an LTR again at some point, but I am enjoying life as Captain with my boys as my first and second mates.

I would appreciate feedback from divorced men regarding when they got back into a LTR/got remarried, and why red pill awareness did not dissuade them from doing so.