Went out with some colleagues this weekend, and we met another group of friends that also had some new people with them. One of them was a really pretty blonde who had just moved to the city. I talked to her a bit during that evening, just normal stuff, but no kino and i didn't sense any IOI's. She seemed slightly shy, but very sweet. Next day i was swiping tinder, and she was there, so she's single. Swiped right, and we matched a few hours later. Score. I texted her something relatable from the night before, and she replied, and we have chatted a tiny bit today. She gives quite long replies with followup-questions, which i guess is a good sign. All my interactions on tinder so far has been with complete strangers that i've never met, is it any different when you've met the person before? Our first meeting was a friendly "meet and greet" type of thing (it was kinda like a gathering for some people that had just moved here), and there wasn't anything more than that. I don't know if she swiped right on me as a friendly thing, or if she actually found me attractive? I feel like i need to bring this towards flirting/romantic fast. Do i just ask her to grab a beer with me, or something similar, and assume she's romantically/sexually interested, or should i say something to make my intentions clear? I mean, aren't people here usually against giving compliments on tinder and stuff like that? Also, she JUST moved here, and she's starting her first teaching job this week, so maybe i could come off a bit strong when she's got lots going on?
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