Posting on a throwaway because my ex knows I use FDS and cba with that.

Seeking advice because I’ve been introduced to a guy through some friends and we’ve been chatting recently and, obviously, haven’t met because of the lockdown.

Whilst it’s VERY early days and I’m not really looking for a new relationship, particularly with the current crisis, we were semi-introduced via a zoom quiz with our mutual friends and he messaged me after and we’ve been chatting most days since.

So far he seems to be a really great guy, interesting, asks questions, remembers things, close with his family, good career, etcetc all things we’d look for in a HVM. My friends who have known him for years speak really highly of him and I trust their judgment. Obviously there’s more to a person that just that so I’m not without reservations - do not panic ladies.

One of my close friends, separate to this group of unis, asked to see a pic of him and she was quite clear that she reckons I am out of his league looks wise. I am less bothered about this because I am more attracted to a person’s character and he’s not exactly repulsive lol... I find him attractive but I see her point.

I am really wanting to know if this would be a deal breaker in terms of the FDS way of life? I am trying really hard to level up!