In a loving relationship with a (yet to be proven though I've known him nearly 10 years) HVM and he is sexually submissive but not into anything violent ... He is not otherwise particularly depraved and not pornsick.
I've always enjoyed being dominant in bed but I'm quite vanilla because none of my previous partners have been into it. As a result I've have had to settle for "equal" dynamics in the bedroom. We have not slept together yet because of quarantine but have talked about it (I initiated the conversation), and I would like to try it out later on, although I want to take things slow in the beginning and create a solid base.
Thoughts on the potential downsides on introducing this in a relationship? Does anyone have experiences and how this affected them psychologically? I feel like it might actually be empowering and possibly help me voice what I want.
In FDS we usually knock dom/sub dynamics because it tends to be a sore excuse for male depravity and female sexual humilitation, but what about the opposite?