So I am in confiment since a month nearly and two days ago I decided to download Tinder again. I have no interest in dating in times of Corona but I am bored and thought lets see. I used it occacionly two years ago but soon deleted it cause during this time I was interested in serious dating and the amount of low-value men looking for "something casual" was a total buzzkill.
Anyway, I am back and I am shocked. I have the feeling it is even worse than before.
In only two days I have seen it all. Men, probably in their 50s and wrinklier than a towell that rotted in a corner tagging their age as 26. I mean come on dude. They would not even pass for 40 and then this. I thought men age like fine wine, lol
Couples on the look for a NiCe LaDy To HaVe SoMe FuN, dudes with nude pics and only a towel covering their dick describing themselves as educated and classy.
But the absolute worst thing is their aggressivness. In the rare scenario when I find a guy interessting and good Looking enough to have a closer look at his profile an unbearable caption stings my eye.
Like:
If don´t answer don´t think about matching me
If you don´t look like in your pictures you pay drinks till you do
You better be smart and interesting, I am not here to become your Insta follower and validate your ego!11!
Ironically many of the guys I matched with begged me for my Insta 5 minutes in the conversation, probably to push THEIR following, but ok.
One yesterday had a caption " She asked me what we are, I said "humans". My fingers flipped so quickly on the X like never before.
Honestly what the hell are they thinking? This is such a turn-off, insane. I also matched with some good men and had nice conversations but what you have to go through as a Woman on Tinder to find them is just too much. I think as soon as I am free to leave the house I am going to delete it again.
