I am SICK of being a pickme for a LVM because of “love”.

2020-02-29T03:10:57+00:00

Something I learned is that I loved loving. I have since been trying to cultivate that feeling towards myself and friends and family. And it's way more fulfilling than sitting around waiting for love from a dude only to be disrespected instead.

Good for you!!

2340000 · 2020-02-29T12:07:32+00:00

Look sis, we all want love. But sometimes the ends don't justify the means. You have to realize that men live in a society with no consequences. Abuse your girlfriend? - slap on the wrist. Narcissistic behavior? - you're an alpha so let's make you ceo. The reason that guy can get away with his behavior is because his life hasn't been affected by it. He can still get what he wants regardless.

And deep down he feels like crap. I've found way too many guys laughing at self loathing narratives because they really feel that way about themselves. Don't let him drag you down too. Don't be his doormat. You're not his parent. You don't have to train him to act right.

Believe me I understand the need for love, we all do. Self love won't last for eternity and we all have weak points, but you have to make a choice to rise above those feelings. When your self love is low what do you do? Choose a path and stick to it.

BrooklynBabe33 · 2020-02-29T12:58:45+00:00

Block. Delete.

Title	I am SICK of being a pickme for a LVM because of “love”.
Author	xtsafdolh
Upvotes	50
Comments	5
Date	February 29, 2020 2:44 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fb61gv/i_am_sick_of_being_a_pickme_for_a_lvm_because_of/
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