I learned that I shouldn't tell any man of any other man. They can use it to their advantage and gauge you how he has a leverage on you.

The pickmeisha in me is learning that you don't have to tell everything on any man, even if he is your boyfriend/husband (debatable?). Always keep him guessing, and never let him try to make you spill your beans and try to control yourself spilling your beans.

The more open you are, the more imbalanced you will get, and you will be more vulnerable to other people. It doesn't matter whether he likes you a lot or you like him alot, never let a guy put a leverage on you.

If you have a fall out within yourself, plan a solo trip. Tell him that you will take a break or even just do it, and let him fill the empty spaces. What he makes of it will reveal his true thoughts and feelings about you.