College sophomore here, for the past couple of weeks, I've been in a position where I could have 2 girlfriends. One of them I've hooked up with a few times already and I can tell she'd be ecstatic if I LTR'ed her. The other girl, who I like more, I've only been on one very good date with and we haven't done anything sexual yet, but I'm 95% sure I've got her in the bag too, but she also seems like a girl who wouldn't be down with an open relationship. I go to a medium sized school, so their friend groups don't overlap, but they have a few mutual friends unbeknownst to them, so I stand a chance at getting caught being with both of them. All my friends keep saying I'm being a total douchebag and they're going to find out so I should choose one, but I like both of them and I have no intention of getting in an exclusive relationship. Both of the girls think our relationship is heading towards exclusive. How can I balance this so to keep them both as non-exclusive girlfriends? I like having an emotional connection and good sex with girls I'm with, so I don't want just casual hookups.