So I’ve been talking to this girl who’s a 5 or so for the last 2 or 3 months. About two weeks ago I agreed to date her because it had been getting brought up and it seemed about that time. This last weekend I went out and cheated on her with a girl I know from college who I ran in to.

I decided to break it off with the girl I was dating on Sunday because I cheated on her. Also, my roommates girlfriend, who is friends with my gf, said she would tell her I cheated if I didn’t, so not telling wasn’t really an option. Now that I’ve broken it off, I’ve been feeling guilty about cheating and also sad I never got the chance to get to date this girl. At the time I was trying to avoid commitment and was reluctant to date her, but looking back she is a great girl. She was a virgin when I met her, she has a great job, and didn’t seem to be talking to other guys. Only downside is that she wasn’t the hottest girl I had been with. Im starting to wonder if I should tell her I cheated and try and salvage the relationship or if that is just a horrible idea? Tbh I’ve been really busy and don’t have any other plates right now, but even if I did I think I’d still be sad about it being over. I think if I told her I was reluctant to commit but now I will it might be salvageable but I also think I might be having one-itis. If anyone’s got some advice I would appreciate it. Thanks.