I have FWB that's two hours away. She recently came to visit me and we had a great time. I maintained my frame throughout and got complete compliance from her in everything. We talked about things to do the next time she visits, so the seeds of her future visit have been planted. We also talked about when we'd have sex because I struggle keeping my little man up after drinking. I got way more comfort tests than shit tests so we're at the FWB stage, creeping into relationship. I know how to handle the talk if it does come up.

However, she mentioned that I should text her more so that I stay on top of her mind. She def gets hit up by a lot of dudes, but I told her that I just don't text much. She glanced at my phone once and said, "Wow, you really don't read your texts do you," which is true. I'll read texts and reply when I have nothing else going on, which is rare.

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This chick has double texted (she texts me, i don't respond, she texts again) me multiple times since we first met. Again, she is very interested in me. I will try my best to respond to her but sometimes it'll be around 24 hours later, which might be pushing it. I stay busy and don't like being interrupted, so I dunno if I can change that.

Anyways, whenever I respond to her after these double texts, she rarely responds. And then goes radio silent. This is confusing considering the plethora of IOIs she has been giving me. The complete compliance while she was visiting, etc. This has happened multiple times where she'll double text, I respond, and she doesn't re-initiate.

As a man, I get you have to initiate at times. Is this one of those situations? Would that count as me losing frame? How long is too long when texting a chick back?

I have not encountered this with my plates so this is a first for me. Thanks.

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