Help me help my gf get back in touch with herself.

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Long story short: my gf, mother of my 2 daughters and myself are having a hard time. 6 month after having our second child, she's studying for a master degree. She also have a ADHD condition. She is all over the place. There is very little room left in her head for herself, and absolutely nothing left for me. We talked about it a lot, maybe too much already, but it did not help much. I am thinking to leave eventually but I'm willing to give it a try for a last time. I want her to get back in touch with the woman she once allowed herself to be, not the mother, the student or the housekeeper (she can't stop herself taking care of everything). How can I help? I'm already very involved with the kids and putting more efforts on everyday tasks. Has any of you been through that?