I am so glad I found this sub. I have been in numerous relationships one lasted as long as 5 years and was always pressured to have sex but I never gave in.

After reading this sub I am convinced the best strategy for me is to never have sex. Here are my reasons:

  1. I saw a post that says a man will never treat me as well as when he hasn't had sex with me yet. This has been true in my experience. I won't give them the satisfaction that they have conquered me plus I have them on their best behavior.

  2. I have come to the conclusion that no man in this world no matter how handsome, successful, talented, kind etc. is worth tearing up my body or orifices for.

  3. I don't plan on getting married. To me a wife sounds like a free prostitute that a man can get free sex from on tap. I am not interested in lowering myself to that level.

  4. Less emotional trauma. When the relationship ends or turns sour as most of them usually do I gain satisfaction in the fact that I didn't let him have his way with me. His betrayal stings a little less as a result.

  5. I don't plan on having kids. I don't want my kids to suffer thru 40 years as corporate slave so that the CEO can make his millions.

  6. I feel like a dignified and respectable woman being a virgin knowing that I have never allowed a man to use my body for his pleasure. It also gives me a sense of purity and holiness in the spiritual sense.

I want to thank this sub for solidifying my decision. I have got all sorts of pressure from men ranging from "if you want to be my gf we need to have sex " or " being a virgin is not attractive after you are 25". I tell them that a tight unused vagina is in demand in the dating world and I am an attractive and accomplished woman so I should have no problem finding someone else.