Me and my favorite plate have been talking about getting in a relationship. This is the first time I’ve brought up the possibility of a relationship rather than the girl. But ever since I’ve brought it up I’ve lost frame several times. I haven’t been clear on what I wanted exactly and kept blaming things on her to explain why I didn’t think it would work. I said one low blow about her dad, and it hit hard I think.

I’ve decided I’m not ready to commit like that at least now with her, but I was acting insecure and jerkish last night so I feel compelled to apologize. She ended up staying last night but she called an uber this morning after I offered to take her home.

Is this something I should apologize for? If so, could it be over text or wait until I see her next week after thanksgiving?