I read the “How not to pay for food” dating advice.

Just wondering when I’m going to find a partner. I’ve followed the directions to the T. But just like the OP, I’ve only been dating for years, nothing serious.

I’m finding that when I’m belittling and aggressive towards them, I almost never get a call back. In fact, most of the call backs are from guys that like the abuse.

At which point does he take me serious? When he offers to pay my bills?