Gross.

I just saw a joke on facebook, it was kinda funny, it was a picture of a cast iron skillet in the dish washer and the caption was some guy saying “washed my gf’s favorite skillet for her, love doing little stuff like this for her” and it’s a joke cus in case you didn’t know you never ever put cast iron in the dish washer because it ruins it. I thought it was funny, especially cus I know how some people get about their cast iron skillets, and I’m giving this dude the benefit of the doubt that he didn’t really run the skillet through the dish washer and only set it in there for the picture to make the joke.

Except it stopped being funny or cute when the comments had a bunch of men saying they did shit like that on purpose to get out of doing the dishes for life

And this is what is called planned incompetence. When men purposely do a shit job at housework or childcare so that their wife or girlfriend doesn’t want them to do it anymore and they get a free pass from ever having to do any cleaning in their own home or ever having to take care of their own children

It’s just evil, there’s no other way to say it except it’s disgusting male entitlement and manipulation. Now these women will have to do more cleaning and housework, more childcare, and that’s going to affect how much time and energy they have for hobbies, friends, and their careers, while the men who purposely act incompetent will have more time and energy for hobbies, friends, and careers and that’s the whole fucking reason they do shit like this in the first place.