My issue isn’t that BDSM normalizes violence, it is that BDSM is violence and that it’s becoming normalized

girls are being taught that violence is sexy, or a part of love. It’s not normal. it should never be normal.

DO NOT do BDSM with a male, ever. it is abusive and it will never be about your pleasure. it is brainwashing, plain and simple.

any man who asks you to do BDSM-related stuff )like choking you, slapping, tying up) is a walking field of red flags. ghost him.