Hello!, I have the urgency to bring my problem here, I am an arduous reader. I have no one to turn to for this matter. My partner and I are together from 10 years now (8 of living together) we started when I was 13 years old and he 17. A week ago we returned from our holidays together and due to time issues (work and study) we could not properly intimate yet. (I am menstruating and I don't really want to do it. More the anguish of having returned from my vacation) We have very intense and satisfying sex. Normally it does not take more than two days without having done it but this is not the case for the first time a week ago that my partner has no sex and today he turned against me in a very derogatory way.

  • He continuously complains that I reject him when I am sleeping and I do not remember any of this!!! (is that I am really sleeping) he begins to caress me and I reject him.
  • Once we are awake we have few hours together (5 maximum) but I do not receive any progress from him (it is not that he wants to try hard to seduce me. He never did and I think there is the problem)
  • The first thing he did today before going to work is to tell me that I can't even squeeze his penis for a moment. (My caresses are tender, I kiss him, I admire his beauty all the time) that I can't even make him a masturbation and that I don't need to have all the sex to give him that. I feel a great sadness in telling him this but I believe that my love for him is greater than what he feels for me at this moment. I await your advice.thanks for reading.