• he doesn’t do 50% of the domestic labour

  • he doesn’t do 50% of the planning when it comes to the two of you spending quality time together

  • he makes you feel bad about your body or appearance

  • he doesn’t respect your boundaries (even if it’s just ‘play’ fighting)

  • he handles you roughly in any way

  • he doesn’t actively make the effort to show you that he loves you every day

  • he gets aggressive in any context

  • he makes you feel guilty about spending money you earned

  • he doesn’t prioritise you

  • he belittles your friends or your interests

  • he takes you for granted.

You don’t have to accept any of that shit from a man, it isn’t normal and it isn’t ok.