I've seen this so often. Men who just screwed so hardly by the divorce, but really LOVE their kids. (basically most men) to the point where they will even drop their dignity just for the sake of the kids.

This is best explained with examples:

My uncle has a huge amount of debt. He still pays his ex-wife child support and gives her HIS CAR (just so his kids won't take the f*cking bus) and even let her sleep in his place during COVID-19 because she makes no money. The guy hates her so much its unbelievable. She literally called the police on him on like 10 times for no reasons, yet he does it just so "his kids can have a healthy life with their mother".

Another examples - I was hitchhiking a few years ago in Europe and talked to this guy who said his ex-wife cheated on him and took the kids, he hasn't seen them in a few years and had a shitty job, but he still gives money to his wife so that his kids can live a normal life. When we stopped at a gas station the guy even bought a happy-meal in McDonald for the freaking toys, even though he knows he won't see them, probably ever again.

These stories are sad really and I know its silly, but I can't help but asking whether doing something like that (helping the b*tch ex-wife) is just being a cuck or doing the right thing for the kids. If the wife has no money to take care of the kids and the father has no visitations rights... is it really his job to care for her just for the sake of the kids?