Hi lovelies! Long time lurker here posting for the first time because this subreddit has helped me so much these past few weeks. Long story short, in January I got out of a long term relationship with a LVM where I was a pickmeisha the entire time. Obviously I am in the rehabilitation process now but at the time I asked him to reach out to me in August to see if his feelings had changed (aka I wanted to know if maybe he would want me back in August, obviously I would never ask this again). I have a gut feeling he’s going to come crawling back so my question is, should I be honest and tell him that I don’t want him back and never will or should I just leave his ass on read? A friend told me the opposite of love is indifference and I wouldn’t be lying if I said I didn’t want to hurt him a little (he hurt me for a very long time, 4 years). Also just FYI we have had zero contact since January. Apologies if this is not enough info or if I need to clarify something. As always dying to hear what y’all have to say!!