I kinda fell into a rabbit of hole on Reddit looking at subs that should most definitely be banned

There are actual subreddits based on rape and incest fantasies, and men participate by the thousands leaving comments and upvoting

I’m scared of the world we live in and all the horrible shit that’s happening all the crime and violence, rape and murder 90%+ males are responsible for

Why isn’t this discussed more? Why is our morality as humans questioned? We women should not be brought into the discussion we are not the problem but the victim

How am I even suppose to find a loving, kind hearted man who isn’t any of the above? Does things can be easily hidden. I worry about my future and the future my children will have.