1 week ago I found this sub.

I realized why my last relationship ended during the coronavirus. Why he randomly stopped putting in effort. I let him walk all over me and was afraid to set boundaries or speak up about how I really felt.

Despite coronavirus I met a guy through a mutual friend and proceeded to ask him out. Even though we couldn’t date traditionally we still messaged daily and went out with masks. Recently I found out he has a porn addiction though and before FDS I thought it was a dealbreaker, but maybe he’d change as he said he was working on it.

Since finding FDS I realize this mentality is why I chase after guys who have red flags because I am in love with the idea of being in love. I hope to fix them, molding them into my idealized version of them. Now I understand the self-love aspect. What it means to be a queen. Attracting HVM and spotting red flags and cutting off the relationship as soon as one appears, to weed through LVM. With the rest of my time in quarantine I am exercising, investing time and energy into myself, and hope to learn more about FDS so I’m my best self and ready to tackle the world once corona is over.

Thank you

PS

I told him it wasn’t going to work out