Hi family ❤️ In need of advice...

Long story short- I was dating a guy for about a year or so. A couple months into the relationship he ran into his ex and decided to pursue things with her. He would date her then call me for however long, then date her again. We started to seriously see each other this past November- May . He never was willing to say he was my BF or make things public online. I was actively engaged with all of his friends and family but not on his social media.

Towards the end of May I noticed he was distant he claimed he was having a hard time moving forward. Turns out my sneaking suspicion of another girl was accurate. Now, he has no problem posting all of the stuff they do after a couple weeks of dating.

Just having a hard time trying to not let my mind go to the “it’s me that’s the problem” scenario and looking to see if anyone has gone through something similar & how it turned out.

❤️❤️ thank you