First of all, I'll say that I don't think that having sex with multiple girls at the same time should be a pinnacle goal for your journey, enough people messaged me and asked about it that I feel like the guys that want it, for them it seems an insurmountable (pun) goal. I feel like a helpful article could get some guys over that hump and onto bigger and more important things. To slay the non-abundance monster so to speak.
Preface:
People want to know what credentials you have to talk about a subject. So I'm 41. I've been sexually "liberated" for about 3 years (meaning I fuck who I want whenever and my gf is bisexual). I've written 10 books about various subjects (BDSM, relationships, sex, D/s and threesomes) and I'm published on Amazon. I think its dumb to share N-counts but people want to hear it. Before I lost count, in three years, I had fucked 27 different girls in threesomes and done it 72 times. The girls have been 19 to 46. I've had 2 foursomes with 5 different partners. With single hookups, threesomes and foursomes I averaged about 1 new girl a month until COVID hit. If you need stories and videos and pictures I've got em.
Step 1 - The Basics
All the stuff on the sidebar. Seriously. Still I say, don't do it for the threesome or pussy in general. But do it. The pussy is a natural side effect. For me, I'm 6'1". I weigh 180. My abs are almost visible. I'm tatted up quite a bit. I have a beard. I lift. Yet on a good day I'm a 7 probably. But you have to have some base of attractiveness to pull off a threesome or more. All other basics and rules apply.
Step 2 - The Basics +
One of the things I write about so frequently is BDSM. You have to have this tool in your toolbag. There has to be something sexually significant about you besides your penis. Women can get dick at the wave of a wand. Two 5's could walk down the street and offer most dudes who are a 7 a threesome all day and get as many as they wanted. The problem with most guys and BDSM is that they learn just a smidgen so they can say they are doing it. Women know the difference. If they can't sniff it out beforehand they will after. Learn how to be good at aspects. It sets you apart. Me I'm well versed but I am particularly good at rope bondage. Being a Dominant and finding a submissive you will find that your submissive often wants to please you and helping you with another girl is just par for the course.
Learn to use toys and props. Women love this shit. If they can knock threesome and being tied up/spanked/whipped/stuck with needles off their fucket list then all the better.
Step 3 - First Partner
I know it gets shit upon here a lot but I have a live in partner. She's bisexual. Now there's a difference between a girl who thinks she is bisexual and one who is. Have they had a female partner in the past? Or have they always wanted to be with a girl (giggle!)? When a hot girl walks down the street do they stare? My girl had a girl N-count. She had brought a girl home to her ex for a threesome. It wasn't a stretch. Lots of women lie about being bisexual. Not having a partner just puts things on hard mode in my opinion.
What I've found is that no girl wants to share a man. That saying that a woman would rather share a good man than have a shit one all to themselves. That's not my experience. If you are good they fight twice as hard to make you theirs. They don't want to hear about your plates. My girl will sit in the floor and let me cuckquean her and she still struggles with it. So don't be an asshole about it or you will cause yourself all kinds of trouble.
Once you decide this is what you want to do you gotta be prepared for trouble to begin with. All girls will compare themselves. Why do you want another girl? If you aren't skilled at navigating these things you will go from one girl to one girl to one girl and never get the other one in the mix.
Step 4 - Third (or third and fourth)
I will say that having a foursome (three girls) and a threesome is not that different in how you go about it EXCEPT its just harder. But what I've learned is that this isn't the fucking Avengers. Assembling your team is a myth. You aren't going to find one girl, add another and then magically add another. What I've found works for me/us is befriending a girl/girl couple. Most people fall somewhere on the sexuality spectrum. Lots of girls consider themselves lesbians but would like to have a dick once in their life or a regular dick to break things up a bit.
I know it gets shit on here too quite a bit but Tinder and online dating is the way to go here. Can you imagine fucking cold-approaching? Not only are you assuming they want to talk to you but you are automatically implying they are some level of gay. We've tried cold approaching. Its tough.
That leads me to another point. Don't let your girl do your pussy hunting for you. Seriously, nothing puts you off on the wrong foot more than this. Never, since we've been doing this has she pulled any tail except for one of her friends (and that was a shit idea).
I find it best to be mostly honest if not completely honest. Make a joint tinder profile. Show both of you equally. That honesty can bite you though. If you just want a one time fling and you say that, its very likely that you are shooting yourself in the foot. So be cautious. Also don't be the creepy couple who just shows T and A and says "here for a threesome". Be a little creative. There are hundreds of those profiles. In my experience the more normal you look, the better chance of a match. If you look like a douchebag trying to get a threesome (even though you are) then you won't get it.
Once you match with a potential, treat her like any other match. I personally get digits and talk to them for a bit before I connect the two women. Lots of times you have to weed out people who are time wasters. You don't want to throw tons of pussy at your partner, it will turn them off pretty quick. This is definitely tinder on hard mode though. The good thing about tinder is that it casts a wide net and that is key. In a book I wrote about the breakdown. You have to think in terms of how many women find you attractive. Now how many of those are at least a little bi. Slice. Now how many of those find her attractive. Slice. Now how many have morals that will let them do this. Slice. You could cold approach girls for years and not have the same luck as tinder.
Step 5 - Making it Happen
First of all, a lot of girls will have second thoughts. This is pretty normal. Don't let them talk you into having them be a pillow princess. That will fuck with girl #1 quite a bit. Promise to show them what to do when the time comes.
Girls who are into a threesomes most of the time won't need a date to get them loosened up. Invite them to your house. Drinks if needed and then make it happen. Dates seem kinda pointless but if YOU aren't sure about the girl then they make sense because you can just bail the two of you out of there. This has happened several times to us and I'm glad we did it that way.
Very rarely will the girls start things. You have to be the instigator. I did come out from the restroom on the second foursome and all three were undressed. But that's rare. Most of the time I just let the conversation die down and then move in for a kiss. The rest pretty much takes care of itself.
One further note, be sure to include everyone as equally as possible if you want to do this again.
I could write a ton more - like what to do in the bedroom that will make the experience very memorable but that's best saved for some other time.
