So there is this girl whom I met last summer one day and even though we live apart we always kept in touch somehow.

Some weeks ago we started to make phone calls weekly to talk about our life and so. And during these calls we decided to travel together for a weekend.

So we met up in other city and she agreed we had a great time. We laughed, had fun, had serious talks about life and interests, were bumping into each other in purpose, we were teasing each other all the time but there are some behaviours that I dont understand.

First she couldn’t hold eye contact. For 3 days, she was always looking away but not focused. I mean, she wasnt looking at nothing specific. Most of times even blushing and smiling. Then we kissed on first night and then she wanted to stop. She told me we didnt have chemistry. We still give some more kisses and we stopped.

As we get home we start cuddling and we slept together. We woke up and cuddled through all morning in bed and sex.

But as we go out she rejected any kind of affection. Not even a hug.

That day we went earlier home and she we again start cuddling and we ended up having sex. We ended up the rest of afternoon and all evening laid in bed cuddling. She even made a shitest when i said something that in her head sounded rude and she turned her back on me. But as I come for her she holds me immediately. We woke up at same time but i left myself eyes close. She probably thought that I was sleeping and she actually cuddled my arm and neck for short time.

At home we were always looking like a couple in love but outside she was always a bit nervous and not accepting any affect.

By the last day I felt that sometimes when she talked she sometimes was placing her hand on my arm or in my belly. But still zero affection.

We said bye with kiss on the lips. She told me to text her but I didnt. Some time before she texts me. And we talked a bit more. Next day she texted me again.

I really dont understand whats going through her mind. She says we dont have chemistry but I think we had a lot. I have no idea how to approach this.

Im not sure if this subreddit is the most accurate for such post but would still love to hear your opinions.

Have a great day 👍🏻