First off this is a thank you for everyone here who've helped me avoid a ton of BS in life.
Now I know a lot of you are in the quarantine as am I. I noticed a ton of people who are gifting on the internet and in life irl who claim they are "happy" or "friends" yet they don't do the work even with given the time to do so.
Over the time I've been reading here and applying a ton of stuff to my life I've noticed that many guys really don't understand much of this.
To get this out of the way in regards to women: Yes, when you take care of yourself you will get more IOI's to state how so I got catcalled by a women yesterday and all I did was cross the street.
Now how this relates to other guys, a ton of let's use the container word for BP guys as Beta's will be envious of this stuff without really showing it to your face but how they behave.
Talking to "old buddies" about women really don't sit well when they are a trapped or have littleexperience. They will rationalize that you are dating only "damaged girls" or girls with "Daddy issues"meanwhile they can't even talk to a girl in real life. Or they got married to the whole girl who waswilling to touch their peepee.
Shame is also used by low value dudes.
These can be forms of "simpin" when you're getting things so easily, while they have to wait (Seebelow.)
What I've noticed with improving my life by reading, working out and getting better in making money and skills that people will try almost anything to get what they want from you.
Buddy of mine wanted some work done for him, gave him a price monetary or some or other form ofpayment that would benefit me. Yet he expected for free when I make money by a side hustle that'stakes a ton of time.
Thirst is the worst
Guys whom would always be kind to my face when out at social functions or talking through amedium will be incredibly sneaky when they see you getting what they want. Had an old friend simpso hard for an ex of mine only for him to smash her then have her cry about me to him his sister andhis social circle.
Would rationalize why i'm seeing a plate that was hot and younger than they could get and state "Iwouldn't wanna be that guy" yet would stare at her ass all night. I would try to explain to them howmaybe just maybe playing video games all night every night isn't that fun and maybe they shouldcome out with me to the city.
"But going out to talk to people is so boring so many people are stuck up!"
They would save face and say they aren't jealous at all but be in the girl's dm's and she would showme afterwards.
One dude I used to know who was tied to a social circle would try and "pay off the debts" of a plate Ihad all while knowing I was fucking. "Yet complains why did my ex use me for money?" while makingminimum wage.
I could go on and on about these dudes and it's really sad to see. I'm no alpha chad or whatever is the new pinnacle word is around here but I have gotten results while others haven't grown. Even with saving face Irl or on social media a lot of people suck ass and that is really okay.
Book recommendations:
Laws Of Human Nature - Robert Greene
What Everybody Is Saying - Joe Navarro
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