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Girl claiming she felt “vulnerable” because a guy called her “pretty lady” at the drive through

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April 5, 2020
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Title Girl claiming she felt “vulnerable” because a guy called her “pretty lady” at the drive through
Author Elliot385
Upvotes 132
Comments 30
Date 05 April 2020 06:39 AM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit antifeminists
Link https://theredarchive.com/post/706838
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/fv9ee0/girl_claiming_she_felt_vulnerable_because_a_guy/
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[–]Ourmutant49 points50 points  (1 child) | Copy

Oh the horror some guy called you pretty

No wonder she cooks for one

[–]killingtimeitself0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

more like buys for one.

[–]the-unflattering-619 points20 points  (0 children) | Copy

In many cases, you could say the weirdest thing and it wouldn't matter as long as you're attractive. That's why those "what do I say to a woman" advice threads/videos/websites are complete BS. So yeah, if the guy was in his 20s and attractive, it would have been a different story.

[–]VestigialHead23 points24 points  (0 children) | Copy

Yeah what a load of shit. This server probably says the same thing to all women. The arrogance to assume he was hitting on her is pretty vast.

Also there is no way in hell she would not have liked a guy that she found attractive saying the same words. What an ignorant piece of shit.

[–]Egalitarianwhistle19 points20 points  (1 child) | Copy

She needs to bring a couch with her in the car so she can faint.

[–]chambertlo12 points13 points  (0 children) | Copy

She forgot her pearls, too.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (0 children) | Copy

'baby' sounds a bit awkward but I see no problem with 'pretty lady'. I've seen some women complaining about men calling them 'darling' but they like it when women call them 'darling', great double standard there.

[–]notalistener12 points13 points  (2 children) | Copy

The whole “cooking for one” makes a lot of sense after reading this lol. It wouldn’t be surprising to me if she was cooking for 1 for the rest of her life with this attitude. Guy can’t pay a woman a compliment? He clearly backed off (if he even was in fact hitting on her) as soon as she wasn’t interested and he became aware. Maybe he was joking...? Even if he wasn’t I would hardly call her “vulnerable”. At best it was just awkward but I’m sure she, like many women I have turned down at the bars that came off desperate, has made a man feel uncomfortable as well at some point in her life when she was interested and he was not. Vanity at its finest.

[–]the-unflattering-68 points9 points  (1 child) | Copy

You underestimate the number of simps out there that would put up with this.

[–]notalistener5 points6 points  (0 children) | Copy

You’re probably not wrong

[–]chambertlo8 points9 points  (2 children) | Copy

Women would be nothing if they couldn’t claim the victim.

[–]ShittySoftwar31 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Deflect responsibility at all costs

[–]sandr-190 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

Hey not all of us pull out the victim card :(

[–]TomToms81 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Dang I guess giving compliments and being nice to women is not ok according to this idiot

[–]Fojos1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

I noticed that when girls knew I had a girlfriend I suddenly wasn't as "scary" anymore and suddenly they started flirting with me instead.

[–]pers0n9330 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy

She couldn’t leave the drive thru and he couldn’t leave the building

[–]Logandanielsboi-2 points-1 points  (6 children) | Copy

I hope he gets fired. Men need to learn to never give women validation ever. Not sure why guys are still put there putting women in a pedestal

[–]Washys_finest0 points1 point  (4 children) | Copy

Wtf is wrong with u? He shoudent get fired over something so casual.

[–]Logandanielsboi0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy

Men need to learn to quit being simps. Never give validation. You don’t just call random women pretty.

[–]Washys_finest-1 points0 points  (2 children) | Copy

Do actually know what a simp is?

[–]Logandanielsboi-1 points0 points  (1 child) | Copy

To me it’s anyone man who gives women free validation this man gave her validation for no reason

[–]Washys_finest-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

A simp is a man that blindly follows a woman expecting something in return.

[–]dreamlandblues-2 points-1 points  (7 children) | Copy

Is it a crime for her to feel uncomfortable? I mean, I know that it’s not really a big deal in our eyes, but is her feeling “vulnerable” something we should be complaining about?

[–]Elliot385[S] 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy

I think it’s important to bring up because that’s not what “vulnerable” should mean

[–]dreamlandblues-2 points-1 points  (5 children) | Copy

So what’s a more appropriate word?

[–]Elliot385[S] 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy

Not sure, although I think I need to rephrase: Him calling her “pretty lady” made her feel “really uncomfortable” which is something to think about. Are men really that scary (or whatever) OR is she overreacting?

[–]dreamlandblues-1 points0 points  (3 children) | Copy

Can she just force herself to not feel the way she feels? I mean it’s not a crime for her to feel that way. We don’t know how she personally experienced it. It could be “overreacting”, but we can’t really put ourselves in woman’s shoes so I don’t think it’s our place to determine how she should feel.

[–]Elliot385[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy

Fair point, but if she felt uncomfortable by him just saying compliment we really need to rethink how to raise women and their perception of men.

[–]dreamlandblues1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy

Their “perception of men”? In what way? To not fear them? Isn’t it better safe than sorry

[–]dreamlandblues-1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy

Is anything, we should be raising men on how to not make woman feel uncomfortable or make unnecessary comments regardless of if it’s just “pretty lady”. It costs men nothing to just say nothing but certain comments can make woman uncomfortable regardless of if it’s harmless or not



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