The context is that I know a girl for a long time, she is friends with my niche. We have met a few times the past years but I was always in a LTR and she didn't want to mess things up (her words). I am single for a while now and she told me she's into me. Last week she came over with my niche to my house and we chilled and smoked some weed. My niche left and went to bed, this girl stood with me and we had a good conversation and everything was good. Later that night I tried to escalate by trying to kiss her but she refused and told me it is not a rejection.. A few hours later I tried again and before you know it she was giving me a BJ (????????). She told me she was on her period so we couldn't fuck (This is probably a lie, I know). Anyways the thing I do not understand is, she didn't kissed me the whole interaction, not even after the BJ.

So the night was like, hugging and giving me a BJ.

Does anyone have a clue?